We currently have about 35,000 on our 2002. I would say about 70% of our driving in highway (non stop-and-go) travel. When calling two different dealerships in the Northern Virginia area, they went through a long list of "to-dos" (lubes, inspections, filters...) for a 30K checkup, running about 0-5. One thing that both wanted to do was to change the brake and transmission fluids. In looking at the owner's manual, they claim to change the brake fluid every 3 years, regardless of miles, for both severe and normal conditions. When we asked the dealerships about this, they both said that the manual is a very generic manual and does not take into account the type of area and driving common to the Norther Virginia area. Thus, they recommend the fluid change. They also said that we could have them not do it, but that would be our decision. So, is this an area when we rely on Honda manuals, Honda dealers, or our good judgement?