ok so im a chick who knows nothing about cars so i need some assistance..i have an 88 honda accord LX heres the 2 problems..#1 one of the holes where the spark plug goes is stripped so it doesnt fit tight and #2 when you start it it runs about 2500 then as soon as you go into reverse or drive or if you stop at a stop sign or whatnot the rpm bounces from about 800 to almost shutting off it actually does shut off sometimes..anyways does anyone have any idea what i need to do to fix it?